相爱可以是一天，一分钟，甚至是一秒。。。 一见钟情？？？可以长久吗？相爱了，那相处呢？永久吗？如果没办法相处，那就算了吗？

相处要怎样呢？两人相处，除了互相依赖，信任也很重要。只要大家都相信对方，那什么都容易解决。但别利用他/她对你的信任，那就是背叛。有一天，我在听电台广告时，有一句话是这样的，“如果他相信你，你不必多解释；如果他不相信你，你再怎么解释也没用！”这很重要，也说得对。如果两人相处，没有了信任，那大家都在提防对方，那如何相处下去呢？

相爱时间可以很短暂，但相处的时间一定是长的，所以需要时间的证明。除了信任，沟通也很重要。有问题，开心或不开心都必须告诉对方。如果你都把它放在心里，什么都不说，那对方就不知道你在想什么，对方也会开始觉得不了解你。

有什么事，大家一起分享，一起分担，开心不开心都一起度过，那就可以维持这段感情。那相处也变得容易了。

前几天我读了一篇文章，关于人与人的心之间的距离。内容如下：

为什么人生气时说话是用喊的？

为什么别人就在你身旁而已，你还是用喊的，难道不能小声说吗？

当两个人生气时，心的距离是很远的，而为了掩盖当中的距离使对方能够听得见，于是必须用喊的。但是，在喊的同时会更生气，更生气距离就更远，距离更远就要喊更大声。

相反的，当两个人相恋时情况刚好相反，不但不会用喊的，而且说话都很轻声细语。因为他们的心很接近，心与心之间几乎没距离，所以相恋中的两人通常是耳语式的说话。但是心中的爱因而更深，到后来根本不需要言语，只用眼神就可以传情。而那时心与心，早已经没有所谓的距离了。。。

看了这篇文章，你有何想法？

当我读这篇文章时，我想起了他，我的男朋友。我发现我们有一段距离。每次想和他在一起度过每一个快乐和悲伤，每天都想念他，但每次约会，都很难找话题。我总觉得我们好像都不够了解对方，总是不知道他在想些什么。是我们的心的距离太遥远了吗？到底是为什么？

新年时，我朋友约我去喝茶。他带了他的女朋友去。我发现他们两说话都很小声，即使我就在他隔壁，我也听不见他们在聊什么。读了这篇文章后，我才明白，那是因为他们心之间是没距离的，所以即使他们再怎么小声的向对方说话，也能够听见另一半要说什么。这是他们真正相爱的证据。我和他几时才会如此呢？

Mid Valley celebrate valentine with him. After we reach there I give him the present that I had chose. That is a pair of cups. I went to two places only I decide to buy this. To buy this present had make me so frustrated, because I don’t know what to buy. But finally I also had buy it.

Then he gave me a watch for valentine and help me to put on the watch. When he send me home, during waiting the traffic to turn green, he hold my hand and tell me the reason that he gave me a watch. It really touching at the time he told me that. I will remember every words that he told me that time.

Then, I find around the mall to get his birthday present, because he birthday that day I can’t celebrate with him. Finally I buy a wallet at body glove shop. Actually he don’t want I buy him anything, because he say that need to use my money. But, I said I want to buy then he can’t stop me to buy it for him. Haha… Actually before valentine day, my friend said buy wallet is also nice but I find many places, I still can’t get one. But finally, at mid valley, I asked him to chose then only I buy. My friend said buy a wallet for guy have a meaning, but I don’t know what is that mean. But, nevermind, I will find it out.

That day, when we want to leave a restaurant, outside the garden, it is raining heavily. I tell him that we wait the rain stop or not so heavy only we back to the mall, but it is still raining and non-stop. So he decide to run across the road to get back into the mall. At that time, he hold my hand tight and we run there. We had get wet under the rain, and I really feel cold. Then we decide to go home. After we get into the car, he ask me am I still feel cold. I say yes then he hold my hand and try to warm my hand. He is really sweet. But, that time we leave the mall, the rain had stop. ==”’

That day is a sweet memory for me, although I had get wet under the rain and almost fall in sick. I will never forget that day.

This happen before the Chinese New Year actually, but now only I have time to write it here. Actually the story is like this…

Before I know my exam time, I had promise him to go out on 13 Feb. But after I know my exam time, I really can’t go. Then, that day I tell him that my exam day is on 13 Feb. ,5.30pm., so after the exam I can’t go out with him because is quite late already. Then he is like unhappy already. When I promise him that time I thought my exam is in the morning. Unfortunately is at the evening.

I can feel his unhappy feeling, I know he sad and a bit angry. But what to do. I know is my fault, I did’t check it before promise him. That day I really very sad when I message with him. I even cry that night. But I did’t tell him. I try to say sorry to him, but it like useless. But, finally also settle it down. Then everything goes normal again.

Then, another day, another problem again… I hurt him again that day… But now I had forgotten what actually happen already. Haha… because I quite forgetfull. I just remember I hurt him again. That time I really feel very sorry to him.  Once again I hurt him. This is not the 1st time, is many many times already.

That time I started thinking that am I really suitable to him? Or maybe he take the wrong choice, chosing me to be his girlfriend. I don’t know why I will think like that. I don’t know why I always hurt him without aware of it.

But after I say sorry to him, he also forgive me. I hope so. He always forgive what I done to him, but I always hurt him. I really feel very sorry to him.

Few hours ago, I just read the newspaper, is about the love test. Test are you really in love or love that person. I realize that the person that not showing love is me. I realize that our relationship like very difficult to stay long. I don’t know why i think like that. I really don’t know why. I hope is I think too much and we can continue our relationship longer or maybe forever.